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[quote=Anonymous]I think some of you are missing the obvious, here - that when someone close to you dies unexpectedly and dies young, it hits harder than when someone older dies, or when someone dies after a long illness. Because it could be you. It forces you to evaluate how you want to live your life, and if you're happy with the way things are, or what you could do differently. If OP is unhappy in her dating patterns - or unhappy to be dating (and not married) as the case may be, she's going to be doing some thinking about this. I lost my mom when she was 41. So hitting 41 and then 42 was a little surreal for me. I think I subconsciously thought I might suffer the same fate and also die young. It was just kind of out there, hanging over my head a little. When I lived past the age at which she died, it was a little weird - it's like I have bonus years now that I never really 100% expected. [/quote]
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