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[quote=Anonymous]Some people are truly able to give money with no strings attached, but those people are rare. If you take this money from your parents, how likely is it that down the road you'll feel like you can't tell them it's not a good time to visit because they gave you the money for the house, or that they'll feel like they have a right to tell you if they disapprove of the house you've chosen to buy? You husband may be resisting this because he knows your parents and knows that the house will never truly be yours because your parents will always feel a certain degree of entitlement. Also, I question whether you've give your husband's feelings due consideration at all. The way you've framed your post makes it clear you think your husband is wrong and that you should take the money. Do you even know why taking the money would make him uncomfortable, beyond the fact that it would?[/quote]
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