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Reply to "Served my DH with divorce papers and he was stunned"
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[quote=Anonymous]Nice try making yourself feel better, divorced guy pp...but having marital issues for years and raising the prospect of divorce at one point doesn't make it any better if you ultimately surprise your partner. It just doesn't. The last person who should be surprised about a divorce filing is your spouse. Duh. Be a freaking adult, have an explicit conversation that includes the words "I've decided to talk to a lawyer about divorce" and then proceed in an open and communicative fashion. And if kids are involved, then there's no excuse for speeding up the process. Instead, seek counseling to foster an effective co parenting plan and divorce agreement, jointly figure out housing arrangements and the finances, and then proceed. This isn't rocket science, folks. But for some selfish people, I guess it simply isn't common sense. Sad. Pathetic, and sad.[/quote]
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