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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]BRAVO, OP, You are very strong and brave.

I did it too. My ex is not well either. My life is not perfect, but it is a million times better than it was when I was married, and I am so thankful for a second chance at happiness.

My ex won some time with our children - including some overnights. He is on his best behavior with them generally, after messing with their heads originally. I hope the same happens in your situation.

My children are doing incredibly well. They were evaluated by a child custody evaluator (upon my request) and he said they were doing shockingly well. (In reality, though,  during the evaluation, I observed some anxiety in both children - he missed it. The good news is that they've worked though it with the help of a great psychologist and they're REALLY doing amazing now.

Your daughter will be fine with all the support you are getting her. One steady, stable, loving and dedicated parent is all that children need, given every study. If you are worried, read the book How Children Succeed:

http://www.nytimes.com/2012/08/26/books/review/how-children-succeed-by-paul-tough.html?pagewanted=all&_r=0

OP here. THANKS so much for this. This is perfect. Yes I think DH will be on good behavior, if only to save face!

And don't spend too much time here on DCUM. Keep your old friends, but make new ones who are divorced. They will show you the way.

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