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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]She knows she's fat and lazy, and she hates herself for it.  And if you harp on it, it will make her hate you for making her hate herself even more.

She has to come to the realization and do it by herself.  Nothing you say or do will get her to that point .  If you love her, I suggest being patient and letting her get to the place by herself, understanding it may take a long time.  If you don't think you can handle an overweight wife, it's better to just get out now, because if your nagging does somehow get her motivated to lose weight, she'll probably resent you so much after the fact, she'll end up leaving you anyway.

I'm sorry it is such a tough place for you.  My husband tried to "help" me, not realizing he hurt me more by trying to help.  Fortunately for him, he gave up and let me decide by myself it was time.  Just make sure she knows you love her unconditionally (if you do).[/quote]

Yes, that might work ........ or she may put on another 50 pounds.[/quote]

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