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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP again - I guess I should add that I don't have a warm rapport with DD's teacher.  She is pretty blunt and doesn't seem to want to engage more than necessary.  I've read other emails of hers and wondered about the wording.  I think we just have really different styles.  I don't know if this is going to change this year.  DD's reading teacher is much more open and chatty and has mentioned several concerns by name (even though she probably isn't supposed to).  Its actually kind of helpful to know what she is thinking though.  I can't get a feel if DD's main teacher is thinking the same things or not.  Actually looking forward to the next EMT meeting to see where things stand.

This is all new to me and its been confusing and overwhelming.  Doesn't help that other parents and [b]MY parent [/b]of course pipe in and say things like they don't think there are any problems.  Or if I could just change my/our behavior (be more organized, consistent) - that everything would be fine.  My mother even stated that if DD got glasses that would solve everything.  Well, we have the glasses (yep she did need them) and it hasn't been a cure all....  [/quote]

Rapport can be a big deal, a teacher's style and engagement level make a huge difference and are what they are.   Not always ideal.  Follow up on the reading teacher's concerns.  They have experience and are a good first-screener lots of times.

Funny how grandparents think they know it all sometimes.  And yet (statistically) they may be gone by the time the child has grown up and is in a position to have the ramifications of their advice ("there aren't any problems") come to pass.

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