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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I won't ask.  But when I said I finally had to say "we are trying", I think it is relevant that my husband and I actually got pregnant within 2 years of getting married and within 4 years of beginning our relationship.  [b]So my frustration with my family was that they wanted a honeymoon baby and I wanted a little married life before kids.  I basically got home from the honeymoon and the henpecking started.[/b]  Little did I know that I actually couldn't have gotten pregnant at that time.  I only learned about the fertility issues after trying for a while (cuz that is how it works).

I am just reminded of the thread on here a few weeks ago where a person without kids asked about people being hostile to people who don't want kids.  I am not hostile but I just wonder if they have made a choice--it is normal to wonder.  They have been together a long time and they aren't getting any younger.

As I said, I won't ask and whoever said if I have to ask if it is ok, then it probably isn't, is right. [/quote]
So why in the hell would you even think of asking them?[/quote]

You are a dolt.  They have been together for a decade!  Living together for a decade.  My husband and I started living together after we got engaged.  On our wedding day we had been living together 6 months.  Wanted some time for fun and travel.  I think there is huge difference between 6 months and 10 years.[/quote]

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