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Reply to "If you are a SAHM do you get an "allowance"?"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to think VERY carefully about whether it is really in the best interest of you and your children if you become a SAHM. It sounds like you and your DH already have an unhealthy dynamic around your new roles. If he has not internalized the idea of "our money" vs "your money" then you should absolutely not be staying home (and I say this as a SAHM who loves being a SAHM).You and your DH will not be on an equal footing in your marriage if he is doling out your "allowance" and telling you what you can and can't spend "his" money on. Does that sound like a pleasant or healthy marriage to you? [/quote]
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