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OP again, maybe you were one step farther than I!   :)   (I hope no offense - this day has really been cathartic for me, I'm kind of shocked).

More seriously, it sounds like you have some hope, which has given me hope - and also that it has already gotten better, or at least you have prepared yourself for the next steps.  Thanks also for the note on addiction specialist in therapy, it is now on my list of criteria for a counselor - and I think DH should brighten to that thought in sobriety.  Before, it would have outright hostility to the notion he had problem.

Good luck!  And here's to hoping the next time you are in the same room as your work acquaintance there is enough momentum toward rebuilding with your DH emotionally and eventually physically, the thought doesn't cross the mind (I think I've made up my mind to stay away from my fixation for at least the duration of counseling).  [/quote]

No offense taken - we gotta stick together!  Unfortunately my fixation has a sexy voice so even those conference calls...  :)   I'm glad you have a little hope.  Its the best we can ask for, and until we decide there isnt any hope anymore, we kinda have to live right, if you know what I mean.  It is also ok to give up eventually but until you're ready to really do that, try to be on the up and up.  Good luck to you.[/quote]

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