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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you are right that you can't say, "Have sex with me X times a month or I'm filing for divorce." At best, you get grudging sex X times a month. What you CAN say is, "We've talked about the fact that the frequency of our sex life is not enough for me, but nothing seems to cha ge. I cannot be happy in a marriage with no sex, and that means that either something needs to change drastically, or I will continue to be unhappy for the rest of my life. That does not work for me. I need to see you taking steps to work on this with me. Marriage counseling/sex therapy/working with your physician to see if there is a medical reason for low drive/telling me to get it somewhere else/fill-in-the-blank. But I need you to show that you care enough about my happiness to do SOMETHING to change this situation."[/quote]
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