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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks to everyone for the good advice. I am definitely going to have DH handle communication with her from now on to avoid these "miscommunications." That's only half the problem though.

DH and I have had some struggles recently and weren't in a good place. We are finally working hard together to compromise on a lot of things and our marriage is much better now. Until MIL interferes. I realize this is not just a MIL problem but is also a DH problem but I don't know how to handle it. We have a major decision coming up as we are moving and starting to look at houses. We have finally reached a good compromise but MIL doesn't like it and that's why she's starting making all these negative comments about me. FWIW when she outright told DH to stand up to me and not compromise he did tell her to back off so now she has resorted to trying to me me look bad instead. I feel like she's trying to plant seeds that I'm no good and he doesn't need to compromise with me.

Anyway, I know this makes me seem paranoid and May be I'm insecure but I feel like if you take slightly shaky marriage and add a lot of stress and then add an interfering MIL on top of it then it's just a recipe for disaster.[/quote]

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