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[quote=Anonymous]I have this tendency. The PPs have it right. I decide I'm not the center of the universe--and everyone is preoccupied with themselves, not me. And I think this: "I'm not that important." Ok the truth is, of course I'm important, pretty essential, to my DH and kids. But I'm not important to the neighbor and the guy at the store etc etc. They are not sitting around thinking about what I said or did. "I'm not that important" really means [b]"I'm not important enough to X that X would be sitting around thinking about a negative way to interpret my last comment."[/b] Don't indulge yourself when you want to go there in your head. Think of it as a luxury that you have so much leisure time to even be able to go there. So going there becomes sort of being spoiled, so use your mental time for something constructive. Anyways, that's my logic. (not calling you spoiled, just showing you my logic to get myself out of this box)[/quote]
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