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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Talk with him about it about again and again. What happens if you cry and tell him about your issues. In all likelihood the issue probably isn't his if SA came back normal. If he feels like he is supporting you and helping you will he be more apt to go through with it?

I think it can be more difficult for men when it is planned out rather than spontaneously happening. It gives him more of a chance to think and get scared. [/quote]

Not every man. Not mine.  If a man truly wants a child, he's on board.  Manipulating her husband to have a child isn't the answer either.[/quote]

I agree.  "What happens if you cry and tell him about your issues" is terrible advice out of a soap opera script.

My DH wanted kids and was there with and for me through every damn step of our infertility journey.  And every step since we were lucky enough to have kids.

How he's acting now, OP, should tell you something about how he will act as a parent.[/quote]

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