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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP HERE

Thank you all for your condolences.  Yes, we were both lucky to have found each other and I will miss him greatly.

Yes, he was married and lost his years ago.  I never married.  I never wanted to get married and in one of our last conversations told him that if I did want to marry, I would marry him.  I'm glad I said that now.  I know it gave him a lot of happiness.

I was thinking this morning that if I found out that this was all a mistake and he was still alive, I would marry him without hesitation.  It makes me feel very sad that he died alone but it does look like it was a very quick death (most likely a heart attack).

I still think I'm in shock. How can it be that I will never have another long conversation with him again?  I wish I believed in an after-life -- it would make it all so much easier.

Again, thank you all so much.    [/quote]

You are reeling Op.  Give yourself time.  I think that if marrying him had been a good thing for the both of you, you would have done it.  As it is, you were able to keep that beautiful friendship alive and well for all these years.  You were blessed to have each other and it is sweet that you were able to tell each other how much you cared.  I am so sorry for your loss.[/quote]

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