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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Something tells OP is maybe, probably, leaving out key details. [/quote]

OP here. I don't think I am leaving out any key details. My gf has the tendency to date great guys and self destructs after 2-3 years. She is a childhood friend of mine. The difference is that now she is married. She has had about 5 serious bfs that ended badly. I actually think her husband is awesome and don't want my friend to end up single again. Her last serious relationship ended when she was about 30 years old. She was devastated that her bf did not marry her and then turned around and married a new girl within a year. She thought she would not find love again until she met her current husband. I don't think my friend is a golddigger but she is not career oriented. She can't wait to have a baby and be a stay at home mom. His family jokes that she is a stay at home mom with no kids. I think she thought it was funny at first but now she is feeling insulted about it.[/quote]

What do you mean "self-destructs after 2-3 years." What does "ending badly" look like? 
If you asked your friend why her serious relationships ended, what would she say?[/quote]

She gets very insecure when the honeymoon phase ends. If the bf wants to hang out with his friends more or doesn't put her as #1 all the time anymore, she gets upset. When they stop having sex 1-2 times per day, she wonders if the guy is no longer attracted to her. If the bf talks to a girl, any girl, she gets jealous. While all this is happening, she would start bringing up engagement and the guy has always walked.

My friend is/was physically attractive so she never had problems getting good men. Her problem is that she cannot hold on to them. This is not my problem.[/quote]

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