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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He lies to me or omits information to avoid my getting irritated or annoyed about things, or to avoid having to ask me if I agree to something  (e.g., things related to our children that both parents should decide).  I'm pretty sure he may even lie to me or obviously hide things from me in front of his family.  I find myself disgusted with this behavior and thinking less of him--thinking that he is a coward.  And I feel like his family will have zero respect for me-- why should they when they can see that he keeps things from me?  Am I justified?  Anyone else go through this and is it possible to salvage this relationship?[/quote]

I acted this way in a previous relationship (I was the male fiance), but was absolutely miserable, and finally stopped being afraid of her and stood up.  Pretty much within a couple of weeks of growing a pair and telling her (and her family who told her what to do every step of the way, and expected to rule how we lived our lives) to shove it, the whole shebang blew up.  I kicked her out (it was my house) and have never looked back.  I immediately, and I mean IMMEDIATELY, felt better than I'd felt in years.  Thank god we didn't have children.  [/quote]

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