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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, why did the in laws encourage him to leave you and the kids?  What were his reasons?[/quote]

Thanks to all the PPs.  It has been an epically rotten day.  But tomorrow will be better, I hope.

My ILs are dry drunks, passive aggressive, and STBX comes from a very dysfunctional family. He had it together when we married, but things started unraveling about 8 years in.  (married 17) He has some serious mental health issues (bi-polar, adhd) and avoids treatment.  He left after I told him treatment or out.  The situation was getting scary and was very unhealthy.  He choose to leave.  As to why my ILs encouraged him leaving is beyond me.  Except that maybe my efforts to get him help would force them to look at themselves?  Who knows.  Can't go down that rabbit hole.

And yes, I am going to lean on my church folks more than I have.  I think it's a pride thing that i have to get over.  Not easy to admit your life brings you to tears on a regular basis.[/quote]

Life puts you on your knees .  Some people don't get it till the deathbed , most get it earlier.  Jesus says " bring it here .. I want that. And I will give you eternal life and a friend that will never leave you. "

No better place to be.[/quote]

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