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[quote=Anonymous]Wow, the responses are so great in helping me gain some perspective. I honestly didn't know how common/normal this was or not, even though I knew that *for me* it is feels very bad. It is true, we are working through issues, and I have talked to him a lot in therapy about how important this is to me. Even the therapist has pointed out how important it is and he will agree--he says. But in practice, I have to ask him nicely each night, again and again, and I either get his irritation at me for being a nag, or occasionally be will join us (sometimes begrudgingly though). So I've stopped asking because I also don't want him participating because I made him. I am just realizing that maybe he has different values and won't change. Maybe his actions are what I should be listening to, not what he tells me. I still don't understand why it's such a drag for him, though. I like to understand where people are coming from, it usually helps me relate better.[/quote]
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