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[quote=Anonymous]Rather than focusing on this other couple that you really don't know well at all, focus on your marriage. You & she have some down time, aren't in the thick of chasing after kids & cleaning up the house, tell her that you still want to have that relationship you & she had discussed years ago and that you're still hopeful you can build it together. Ask to get some time on the calendar, away from the kids & the house, to really talk it through. Maybe you all could attend a retreat together that focuses on communication skills. Your wife may want to be sweeter than she is, but it's not easy to change the patterns you've held all your life - it's your default mode when you're not focusing on it. So take some time to come up with new communication patterns together. [/quote]
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