Reply to You shouldn't have married daddy

Forum Index » Relationship Discussion (non-explicit)

Reply to "You shouldn't have married daddy"

Subject:

Emoticons





More smilies

Text Color: Font: Close Marks

[quote=Anonymous]I am recently divorced and I would suggest that you attempt to work it out one last time.  Really talk to each other about what needs to change for the relationship to work.  If you can't agree on what that should look like or one of you is unwilling to make that change, then you can try a separation.

It sounds like you really dislike each other at the moment.  That isn't all that unusual with toddlers and infants around, but not all relationships can be saved or are worth saving.

Just remember that if you do divorce, your DH is likely to spend 50% of your kids time alone with him.  Will he treat them better than he treats you?  Will you feel safe leaving them with him?  It is something to think about before you leave.

My ex started out asking for 50% custody, but in reality he sees my kids about 48 hours a month.  So, in my case -- that isn't as much of an issue.

Anyway, hugs to you and your kids.  If possible, don't talk badly about your DH in front of the kids.  Even when your DD is astute and understands, you can let her know that you love her daddy, but the two of you are both having a hard time treating each other well.  It's not worth trying to get your kids to take sides.  It only hurts them in the long run.[/quote]

Options

	Disable HTML in this message
	Disable BB Code in this message
	Disable smilies in this message

Review message

Search Recent Topics Hottest Topics