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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, would you feel better if he had gotten you an XXS, that you couldn't fit into? The issue is not the sweater, is that you've put on weight and are in a normal/slender range, but you assume (and you may be right) that your DH does not find you attractive at this weight. You have been anxious your entire relationship to remain underweight to please him, which suggests some self esteem issues and body issues on your part, and he has not reinforced you in an y positive way sinc you've put on weight due to medication. It sounds like an unhealthy dynamic. You need to feel comfortable with yourself at what is a healthy weight, and DH needs to support you there. Also [b]sounds like you need to talk about it with him rather than coming up with crazy paranoid scenarios which may or may not have a basis in reality. [/b][/quote] This. [/quote]
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