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[quote=Anonymous]OP - I'm so sorry for your loss. I know your pain is great. I'm praying for healing for your heart today. Hang in there.

Let me encourage you to let your husband go to counseling with you. He probably wants to help you grieve through this but doesn't know how to be there for you. He may feel awkward. I'm sure he doesn't grasp the depth of your pain.

Abusive behavior of any kind is unacceptable in a marriage. But before you decide you need to walk away from the relationship entirely, it's important to try and understand what's fueling his anger and rage and see if change is possible. He may have issues that go back to his childhood that he's never dealt with before. I've seen people change dramatically when they realize they have these fears and insecurities driving their lives and sabotaging their happiness. I'm not suggesting you stay in an abusive relationship. You're the only one on this board who knows the severity of it and whether or not change is possible.

Hope this helps in some small way. If you need support through all of this, I would recommend reaching out to a non-profit, ministry based counseling service like Focus on the Family. There's no charge for their services and they are always so pleasant. God bless you!

#Livn'ItUpInCO
#JesusChangedMyLife[/quote]

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