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[quote=Anonymous]You dont have to go all out or spend money to be feminine. I have shorter hair, don't do nails, and don't wear lots of skirts and dresses on a regular basis (though they are now a staple, as I realize that a great fitted work dress gets attention). But I wear a little make up, don't wear baggy, ill fitting clothes that hide my figure, and i am comfortable in my body and sexuality==weekend wear is fitted dark jeans or thicker leggings, siver flats or boots, a well fitted shirt with some color or longer sweater that is not baggy, but skims the body. A necklace or earrings, not both. Lip gloss. A smile, and good posture. This takes no more time or money than mom jeans, a crew neck sweatshirt and ponytail.

while some men want and go for the long hair, painted nails, super tight dresses, many many just appreciate a woman who takes some care in her appearance (frankly, just as women prefer a man not running around with a 3 day stubble, baggy sweats and a t shirt from his favorite band in the 80s). When my DH shaves, showers, and puts on fitted clothes, I find him much sexier than his usual weekend appearance (baggy old jeans, fugly t shirt, no shower)--hoping he reads this thread, in fact. Its the same for women.

All that being said,  sounds to me that the issue isn't a feminine appearance, but that's a symptom of something else going on. Your lack of female friends and your being in the 'friend zone' with men is suggestive--are you secure in your sexuality? What is it you fear about femininity? do you equate unfemininity with independence? [/quote]

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