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[quote=Anonymous]Why was the child hitting you? What did the child want that she did not receive? A -logical- consequence would be to NOT receive that thing, for a memorative (not abusive) amount of time. "Memorative" and "logical" depend on context -hit me because of saying to put away video game = no video game system for a week (or month, .etc) with an explanation each and every day that you lost game system because we do not hit in this family, and hitting will make things important to you go away. Best if you explain this rule -before- the negative consequence, so that eventually the kid will understand (with your consistent example and clear explanation), that hitting will do nothing good for you, and things you love will go away. If an adult punches an adult in the USA, the -logical consequence- is a legal action and probably a punitive measure, NOT to let them both punch each other until one or both pugilists die. :? [/quote]
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