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[quote=Anonymous]The fact that this has blindsided you makes me think there's a good chance it's something she's just "trying on."  There's a lot of publicity around this issue at the moment and for "typical" kids, I think some of them look at all the viral videos or stories about kids "coming out" and their supportive parents and how it can almost make you famous or special to be different in this way.  Actual children with gender dysphoria, on the other hand, have felt "different" their whole lives and typically act out.

In other words, I think it's really unusual for someone to reach the age of 13 without even dropping a single hint that they are confused about their gender identity and then suddenly come out as transgender.  I'm not saying it's impossible, but I would definitely see a regular therapist first as opposed to one specializing in transgender issues -- or at least be very careful about which transgender expert you see.  Kenneth Zucker is an excellent choice for this, but I'm not sure where he is based.  He headed up the APA task force on gender identity, though, really knows his stuff, and takes a VERY conservative approach with children -- no hormones or transitions before a very thorough attempt to get the the root of what's really going on.[/quote]

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