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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are mad at the wrong person. Your DH broke your agreement and lied to you for 1.5 years! Your MIL probably thought she was trying to help save your relationship with your husband by covering his lie and she went a little overboard. I would try to let it go, it's in the past and there's nothing you can do about it now. Any grudges you hold need to be worked out with your DH, he is the one to blame.[/quote]

Again, it may appear that way bc of the nature of my post, but that's only because I'm handling it with DH, so the DH part of it isn't really something I need feedback on (though if you have any let me know).  So DH wanted to tell me at one point and MIL convinced him not to.  That is another part of it I'm struggling with.

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I don't think there's much to work through with your mother in law. She had an obnoxious phone conversation because your husband made a bad move. She was trying to protect your feelings. I don't see how she has any blame at all. If she has done things that bother you since then, by all means bring that up with her. But leave this long misstep out of your relationship with her.[/quote]

If I care about it, I need to do something to address it.  If you are saying I should leave this out, how should I do this?  Should I divorce my DH if I can't get over it?

Also those were just examples of a pattern of truly obnoxious behavior that lasted at least two days.[/quote]

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