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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Yes, OP - make it stop.

It's not him. It's about you. You are a bad person.[/quote]

This.

Step 1:  Grow up
Step 2:  If possible, get a new job and cut off all contact with this guy.
Step 3:  If this is not possible, ask to be transferred within the company if it's big enough and cut off all contact.
Step 4:  If you simply must work together, stop all communication outside of professional contact.  Explain to him why you are doing this and follow through.
Step 5:  Grow up

My DH worked with a woman who had feelings for him.  She sent a very inappropriate card to my home once and DH and I read it together and discussed how we felt bad for her and what he should do to discourage contact.  Once they no longer worked together, he cut off all contact.  I think the fantasy that you have built up in your mind is probably just that - a fantasy.  If this guy was so attracted to you over the course of 4 years, something would have happened.

You are selling yourself short.  This is a barrier and possibly a defense mechanism to you finding an appropriate relationship with someone who is actually available to you.  Have more respect for yourself.[/quote]

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