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[quote=Anonymous]Now that you have a baby coming into the situation, DH has to think about his child now. It is no longer just about "him" anymore, he needs to make space for his child, literally as well as figuratively. Before the baby comes for obvious reasons, you both need to take a weekend + clear out some space for the baby's stuff to go. Designate where your things will go and where his things will go. Set it up to be fair so that you both have equal space. If he starts complaining that he has more things than you do, thus needing more room than you will just let him know that he will have to get rid of certain items or find somewhere else to store them. Do you have a garage/basement/attic, etc. where he can store his things? If not, then he can pay a storage shed if he is unwilling to part w/his stuff. If you and your hubby cannot organize your things in a compatible manner, I highly suggest hiring a professional organizer as a last resort. Someone who has experience in this area and who can also be a neutral 3rd party and can assist your husband w/eliminating all of his clutter. Good luck and hopefully this can all be resolved before your bundle of joy arrives!![/quote]
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