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[quote=Anonymous]I like it when a guy is respectful and makes sure that I am "consenting" when we first get together.  After I have kissed you or gone further, I welcome a more aggressive approach regarding things we have already done.  After I have slept with a guy once and he knows we are continuing in a relationship, I love it when he throws me on the bed and takes charge.  I wouldn't want it quite that aggressive the first time, though.

As another concrete example.  If we have had sex in several interesting positions, he doesn't need to ask to do those again.  On the other hand, if he decided to try anal without asking -- I'd kick his ass.

All in all, I have found that men respect concrete boundaries.  I try not to give off mixed signals.  So far (maybe I am lucky), no one has ever done anything I would consider even slightly rapey.  I grew up with brothers and am not afraid to speak my mind around men.  While I do acknowledge that there are sexually aggressive men who don't listen to no, I think the vast majority of men will respect a firm no.
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