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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP here who has been harping about consent.

Unrelated, do women actually like this "draw her a bubble bath" business? Do they find it erotic? I like bubble baths, but honestly, if my husband wanted to have sex, running me a bath is not the way to make that happen. If my husband wanted to be nice to me, he would draw be a bubble bath, pour me a glass of champagne, hand me some trashy new novel and then take DD to a park for a couple hours.[/quote]

For me they work.  I am much more inclined to get sexy when I feel like I have been doted on.  I guess everyone's love language is different, but I find it to be a form of foreplay.  My husband and I had a real rough patch a few years ago, that almost came to divorce, and after we reconciled he  really made an afford to be more thoughtful.  Now he will do small things throughout the day to let me know he's thinking of me.  For example, when I go to take a shower, he will have left my slippers and a bathrobe hanging next to it.  While it's a small gesture, it let's me know that I'm high on his priority list.  Or he will call me in the middle of the day to say not to bother with dinner, that he's taking me out.  He makes an effort to really listen to me when I'm speaking, not in that annoyingly dense typical male way, but with real understanding and interest.  All those things add up to make me feel much sexier, and much more connected to him. I have to feel connected to someone to have sex with them.  So it's a win win for both of us- I get to feel cherished, and he gets to have his sexy times, and get my love in return when I feel valued.  It's really worked for us. [/quote]

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