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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My DH doesn't want to talk about it. Like a PP said in her case with her DH, he feels like I'm nagging, that it is my problem more than his. He doesn't want to cut back and says he likes the taste. I can be anxious anyhow so that's why I wondered if maybe it's me. He is otherwise in good health. I really don't think he drinks at work.[/quote]

Well, good luck. Sounds like he drinks a little too much and you're a little too inclined to worry, so in combination it's an issue. Maybe just give it time, it may well be a phase. I do think the early responses to this thread skewed toward greater concern/hysterics than is probably warranted here (many people obviously have bad experiences, baggage, etc. that they bring to this issue, which is totally understandable). But for many others drinking a lot is just an enjoyable and manageable part of life. Your situation doesn't sound intrinsically out of line, other than DH's behavior toward you when drinking and your inability to talk to him without it being construed as nagging, which suggest the drinking thing may not be the real issue. [/quote]

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