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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, yours likely will. Here's why.  You are worried about cheating before you barely start a relationship. You don't trust the secrecy surrounding what he does and view it only in the context of unfaithfulness. So you will always be suspicious and probing, especially if the person is out of touch for a while or working long hours. Over time you will fall into the role of non-supportive person, which will be draining to your significant other. This person will become close with colleagues and other people, and will find someone who 'gets him without all the questions'. Eventually something will happen.

Just like in all other walks of life, there are all types. Some people stay faithful, others cat around. But if you go into a relationship with this chip on your shoulder, it's not going to end well, even if cheating isn't the cause of the future breakup.[/quote]

I actually was not worried about cheating with the person I was dating at the time and understood the secrecy involved. However, the stories I was told about other employees indiscretions were disturbing. Everyone (4 people) agreed that affairs were rampant by their colleagues.[/quote]

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