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[quote=Anonymous]ok it's hard to tell here if it was just a joke gone wrong or what a couple of wise PPs are saying, about showing who he really is and that it really wasn't a joke.

And btw, that's pretty gross for a joke--I can see a "maybe promoted because boss thinks she's cute" comment, but blow job?  UGGGH gross AND implies something YOU did (vs boss just thinking you are hot)

But that aside--the drunken middle-of-night stuff is the deal breaker.

OP I had one of those relationships.  Our relationship was always going by fits and starts.  It seemed to only progress when I'd break up, then he'd come back begging in some way/shape/form.  Then we'd be back together, maybe even at a tighter level, but it would always end up with me thinking it wasn't right, and the breakup, then the apology stuff.

It's a cycle--like the cycle of violence--but there's no violence.  But it's never fulfilling, OP.  It's 10% great and 40% ok and 50% yucky.  That's no way to live a happy life.  And even during the good times, after a while, you end up wondering how long it will last, because you know, you know, the downturn is ahead.

Now that's not totally fair because it's early in the game for you, OP.  So if you DO take him back, then please watch out for this.[/quote]

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