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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Whatever. Get a number right? I am a DH. Been married 10 years or so, 2 great kids under 5. DW is a SAHM. DW and I haven't been great for a long, long time. Not sure we ever were. She's good at heart and works really hard to be a great mom. But she's SO angry all the time. Like, screaming at me because I got the wrong kitchen trash bags (just a quick example from today). Treating me like that is tolerable, but she does this to our sweet babies too. Then when she calms down she sort of guilts them in to apologizing to her or loving on her as like a way of making up. It wrecks me inside. I feel like I have to protect them as if she's hitting them or something. It honestly feels almost abusive to me. If it weren't for the likelihood that moms get kids in a divorce I would do it. I couldn't just not see my DC every day so that's not an option. Guess I'm just so incredibly sad. [/quote]

Dear OP. DW here. I used to be like this, but the anger was directed towards my husband, not the kids. 3 kids under 7. It took me a long time to accept the fact that I needed help. My husband was always very understanding, but finally told me that he could not live walking over eggs. It was devastating for me to aknoledge the fact that I was not super woman and that I was loosing it. I started taking anxiety pills and I am a totally different person. It is me again. No more dramatic up and downs. I wish I would have gone to the doc sooner, but I guess I needed to accept that I really needed help first.

Good luck. [/quote]

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