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[quote=Anonymous]Breaking up is never easy OP, but if there is a silver lining here, be thankful that it was only three months of dating here. While I am sure you have strong feelings for him, that really is not a very long time + the healing process shouldn't take too long.

However, this is not to discount your pain.

Breaking up w/someone should be treated as any loss. You must take the time to properly grieve. There are no short-cuts so do not try to find any. If you do, you will only prolong the agony tenfold. Let yourself fully grieve, feel the pain in its entirety. This will let you heal fully and normally.

During this time, do not make any effort to contact this man. While the temptation will be very strong to reach out to him, DO NOT even call him!! Doing so will take you back 10 steps in your recovery and you will only live to regret it I promise you.

Remember, getting over someone is not necessarily a progressive process. Meaning you will have times where you think you have made it through some major hurdle and are finally over him, then suddenly you will have a bad day when you may just break down and cry all day just thinking of something you both did together, etc. This is 100% completely normal and is to be expected.

I wish you only the best in your healing process and stay strong, keep the faith and always remain positive.

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