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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Op, is there anything in what DH says that is true? Meaning, are there ways you can communicate better before things escalate and people are angry? What else about your 'behavior' bothers him? [/quote]

What DH says is true, always true to my understanding. That is why I said his logic is unbreakable. Perhaps my debating skill is terrible and I can't turn it around so I feel trapped??? Would you say 'Yes' if you are asked "Do you want to be a better person?"

About my behavior, I think I mentioned it in the original post. Maybe it is not clear. Let me try again. He is bothered with me refusing to talk about something he wants to know or if something is bothering me and I am showing on my face. For example, I look not happy. He asks me "What's wrong? Is there something you want to talk about". I replied "No, I don't want to talk"  or "Nothing". He won't stop there, he will talk into a way that I will have to say it even if I say "It is not about you and I don't want to talk about it". It usually ends up in a "talk" . Then at the end it is always that I have bad attitude, keeping secret from him.
Well, he sure cares about me. I can understand it but I don't need to be fixed. When I am exhausted or angry, I don't want to talk and he knows that. 
DH is very caring person, maybe too caring, nice, helpful and very polite. I don't have anything that is big enough to complain about him (like I said, I will find alternative way to work with it before I make any complain). Just this one issue we never resolved and keeps coming back. That is why I suggested marriage counselling. 
I guess there is no more I can do except looking for professional help to see I really need to do. 
Thanks all PPs.  [/quote]

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