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Reply to "When the kids go to college, I'm out of this loveless and affectionless marriage"
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[quote=Anonymous]It is very damaging at that age. Not quite as bad as when they are in middle or high school, but still pretty awful. The first few years in college are a very sensitive time and you will be ripping the rug out from under them and telling them the happy family they thought they had was a lie. And they are in for a lifetime of split up holidays, financially damaged parents, potential stepfamily problems, and all the other crap no matter what age you do it. Being an adult child of divorce is no picnic, especially when you are dealing with two aging parents in two locations. If you leave your wife without working the marriage, your children will find out and they will resent you for giving up so easily. This is the only family they have, so don't just throw it away. Give it your very best effort and then if it doesn't work out, at least you can look them in the eye and say that you tried.[/quote]
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