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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am so tired of my DH blaming me for everything that he doesn't like or that might embarrass him about our children:

My DD has dyslexia- I didn't read to her enough when little 
My DS cries easily- I coddle him too much 
MY DS is skinny-- I don't feed him well enough 
MY DD doesn't seem to have a group of friends yet -- I don't do a good job of working on play dates, etc. for her 
My DS got a concussion in sports- I coddle him 
MY DS can't handle loud places well, making certain restaurants tough - I coddle him

To be fair, my son's sensitivities are sometimes difficult to deal with.  I am the parent at home and my DH travels a lot, so I play both parental roles a large portion of the time.   Trying to talk to him about this is pointless.  I try, but I am getting angrier and angrier and the kids are now at an age that they can see what is going on.    I am the only one who cooks, shops, does homework, arranges tutors, keeps up with their school, social, and extra-curricular needs.   Just a vent I guess.   [/quote]

Sounds like you've let your husband do all the economic heavy lifting.  Does he get to vent about that?[/quote]

He does.  And the situation is complicated on that front.  I have money that allows us considerable comfort - it's not all on his back [/quote]

In all honesty, if you are providing the funds too, I'm not exactly sure what this guy is adding to the relationship.  He sounds like he really lucked out with you that you will put up with his emotional fits and also help him out financially. [/quote]

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