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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I see how my post might have painted me as a troll. Actually I am just really frustrated and resentful and horny.

Responding to some false (but not surprising) accusations:
I've maintained the same weight for the past 25 years, would properly fit my marriage tux and high school sports uniforms, by controlling my diet and exercising regularly.
At home I pull my fair share of family duties and am quite involved with our kids.

10:35 asked[i] "do you care about your wife enough to help her figure out what's behind the weight gain and support her as she works through that"[/i] What does that even mean, help her figure it out? In the past, I've tried the "let's eat better for our health" approach. She has a gym membership and I've encouraged her to go. Now I am about done trying to [u]figure out[/u] my wife's weight gain.  Here is what I have figured out: she eats alot, she's stopped exercising, she gains weight. It's not hard to figure out. How is this on ME? If she [u]were[/u] to make [u]any[/u] efforts, I'd support that 100% but really the decision and motivation needs to come from her right?

As to that MILF, she is also married and although I've not pursued this too far, she has been flirtatious with me so it's not purely an assumption that she's interested. I've remained faithful in my marriage but at my wits end here, and a nice lady who takes good care of herself is flirting with me, I am now noticing this and this adds to my feeling cheated at home.

As to my poor sexual performance causing her low desire: maybe [u]you[/u] are the troll?

My question is: do people agree it is [u]cheating[/u] to stop taking physical care of yourself and to stop wanting sex with your spouse?
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