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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]Your DH tells your brother, "I'm uncomfortable being asked to keep information from my wife. And, WTF do you want us to do with this knowledge? You know it's going to be very difficult for us all to get together and play happy families.[/b]"[/quote] +1000 That's quite rude and selfish of your brother to put your husband in that position. Your husband's first loyalty to is to you, his wife. [/quote] Yup, I'll add another +1000 to this! And I'd also add that if Brother's answer is he wants advice or needed someone to confide in, if I were your DH I'd encourage him to be a man and deal both with his marriage issues (i.e. get help or break up) and make some decisions about what's best for him and his kids. And maybe refer him to resources about cheating and things to keep in mind (like how easy it is for the OW or OM to seem perfect, because you're not dealing with daily life with them and all the stress and boredom etc.). But more than anything, I like the bolded above, that's the best initial reaction.[/quote]
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