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[quote=Anonymous]Sometimes cutting someone out is the right move. Some people aren't meant to be grandmothers...or just don't do a good job at it. Would her presence be adding ANYTHING to your daughter's life? Probably not. DH's mom is all kinds of f'd up. He finally cut her off almost 3 years ago by telling her we'd have zero contact with her until she agreed to therapy with me and him. She refused, so she didn't see us or her only grandkids for almost 2 years. She finally agreed to therapy and we all started going and making progress. We reintroduced the kids to her and all seemed to be improving. Latest therapy session revealed that she is just as narcisistic (sp?) and emotionally controlling as ever. Sigh. At least we know and we can temper our expectations. It is what it is. She's never going to be that wonderful warm fuzzy Grandma I dream of for my children. [/quote]
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