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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, thanks.  Just to be clear, we have only talked/seen each other once this year at a family event.  She ignored all holidays and my daughter's bday.   So since new year's contact might as well be zero.  This anger has been building up in me.   She really isn't a grandmother at all.  [/quote]

Were you thinking on some level that lending money would make the relationship better in terms of your mother being more grateful to you for help and reaching out on birthdays and such? I am estranged from my father for similar reasons - not interested in me or grandkids and shamelessly asking for money for fake reasons and then blowing through that money in front of my eyes. I drew a line when I came to realize that I am nothing but a fool with deep pockets for him.   Don't think helping out financially will change a disengaged narcissistic parent. It won't.  She used you, best revenge would be living well, not telling her off - she doesn't care about that part.[/quote]

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