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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here, thanks.  Just to be clear, we have only talked/seen each other once this year at a family event.  She ignored all holidays and my daughter's bday.   So since new year's contact might as well be zero.  This anger has been building up in me.   Slhe really isn't a grandmother at all.  [/quote]

You're right. She's not. And she sounds like a shtty mother, too. You need to mourn this loss. You need to be angry at her and mourn what you should have had, what your daughter should have, and then accept that she will never change (unless she gets medicated, but you don't know if she will).  She sounds narcissistic or like an addict. Either way, this relationship is toxic. You are right to keep her away and not teach your daughter that toxic people deserve places in our lives. Take each day and week individually and then decide if that's the day you want contact. If not, let another day happen. It sounds like you're waiting for her, waiting for the other shoe to drop. I'm so sorry.[/quote]

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