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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]So now I'm being slut-shamed by misogynists and told I'm fake, great.

[quote]I was you at 23. Yes, a guy wants someone who can be fun. They also want someone they can bring to a work function and not risk them being an out of control embarrassment.

Thankfully I realized this, toned it down, and met DH at 24. I'm 28 now and still enjoy life, but DH is also proud to have me by his side at his black tie events.[/quote]

Yeah but the point is you shouldn't have had to "change" to get wifed up and neither should I. Why can't your DH accept you for who you are?  : /[/quote]

You're right, you shouldn't have to.  And I'm sure you can attract a guy, just not the ones you want. You are making yourself sound like a victim when you aren't.  I change not because I wanted to get a professional boyfriend.  I changed because at a certain point, the party girl behavior you are describing is no longer appropriate.  I still have a good time.  DH has seen me drunk. DH has seen me so drunk I couldn't see straight.  But that's rare and he knows I can control myself and am not a rager who needs attention from other guys.

But keep playing the "woe is me" victim card. [/quote]

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