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[quote=Anonymous]I think there's always situations in which people find they have married the wrong person. I think it's possible we make "the wrong choice" and marry a person who is not as suited to us as someone else could be. I DO NOT think you (objective you, not you personally) are able to see this in the midst of a rough patch in your marriage or an affair. You cannot rationally know whether your current partner is wrong for you or if the attractive potential partner is a good match when you're in this mindset. You can't separate everything appropriately. I would separate myself from the affair partner. Work on my marriage and myself. If, after a TRULY HONEST attempt, those things could not be improved, I would consider divorce. Then, I would spend a period alone, not dating, just alone. Only after all that can you reasonably and accurately determine whether this other person (or any person) is your "better mate." [/quote]
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