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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Leave it alone.  I understand you want closure but you are not going to get it.  Like with most adoptions there is probably much more to the story.   He may not be your real birth father or he has not told his family.  appreciate the fact you are loved and wanted by your family, especially parents and try to move on.  [/quote]

Thanks for this perspective.  I honestly had not considered the possibility that he may not be the real birth father (though I have assumed that if he is, he has not told his family).  His name is on the birth certificate - and he was married to the birth mother at the time - but it really had not crossed my mind that this could have been other than what it seems.  Guess that shows how the emotional side can stop you from objectively considering all the possibilities.[/quote]

Being married means he is the legal father.  He may not be your biological father.  Your biological father may not know about you, it could have been an affair or rape.  Your birthmom is hiding something probably for a reason.  In adoption, depending on the state, the legal father is the priority for signing or both have to consent or be terminated by the court.  Birth On my way! are often advised to lie to make the process easier. [/quote]

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