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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]First and foremost OP, I do not think it is proper for two married people of the opposite sex to lunch together. It just doesn't look right plus it sets the mood for inappropriate things to happen such as what you just mentioned here.

I would diplomatically discuss what happened w/your co-worker. Let him know that you enjoy your WORKING relationship, yet you are a happily married woman + that you feel it was a bit inappropriate what you he did the other day w/touching your hair and all.

Then from now on, I would avoid having any one-on-one lunches w/him.

If you continue to do so, then you will be sending him mixed messages.[/quote]

Please...you expect the OP to take heed to this?  HELL NO!!  Know why, cause it's reasonable course of action and we all know women aren't reasonable when they're on the receiving end of attention.  
Women lose their damn minds when they get some attention.  They give their numbers out to guys they're not even attracted to and go out on dates with creeps they're not at all compatible and get intimate with dudes they just met and knowingly sleep with married men and we wonder, why?  Why?!!!  I'll tell you why cause attention is like kryptonite to ladies and all some jerk has to do is sprinkle a little on a sane rational woman and instantly she turns into a dumb delusional chick in denial who'll believe anything and everything.  For a little while at least...
So I'm betting OP continues having lunch with this handsome co-worker and I'm betting she even conveniently "forgets" to tell him about his inappropriate line-crossing cause the attention will have her so enamored she won't be able to see straight.
Check back in about a month or so - you'll see a new topic posted about some chick having an affair with a co-worker and wondering how to keep her job and save her marriage.[/quote]

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