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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Have you talked to him about it?
Sit him down tell him how you feel about his reaction and your feelings and fears regarding the deliberate push and see what he has to say.[/quote]

Well, it just happened, so we haven't had a chance to talk. Immediately after he did it I told him to just leave the house and I would do drop off.  (So he won, ha ha!)  It's hard to sit down and be emotionally honest with him because I feel so angry and mistreated. I feel like HE should be groveling to me, not the other way around. But my rational self knows that I do need to just sit down and talk calmly with him because he just loses his fucking mind (blows up, but more often shuts down) during confrontations. [/quote]

Please don't exacerbate the situation by throwing vengeful pride into the equation [i]I feel like HE should be groveling to me[/i].  What is needed now is genuine communication between you two about what happened and about your respective thoughts/feelings/expectations things going forward.  You're hurt by his actions and want HIM to reach out and want HIM to apologize, yes that's understandable, but don't become so preoccupied with it that you [b]lose sight of what is in the best interest for both of you.[/b]  What's best for both of you is an honest talk with one another (not at one another) and it doesn't matter who reaches out to initiate this talk, what matters is that it gets done in the interest of better understanding each other and better understanding where your relationship is.[/quote]
Actually, it's the [b]three of them[/b].[/quote]

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