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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]The way you explain it, it sounds like he was just stomping and bull-rushing out the door because he was in a bad mood. I wouldn't say that equates with an intentional push to cause harm.

That said, if he's a jerk that's an issue you can and should address. Unclear. [/quote]

I'm certain it was intentional, but somewhat less of an "intentional push to cause harm." Still, it was a use of physical force.

Oh, forgot to add that DH comes from an abusive background - his dad used to beat him up until he got big enough to fight back in his teens. I have never asked, but fairly sure his dad must have also hit his mom. [/quote]

And don't forget to add that next it will be [i]your[/i] son who comes from an abusive background. I'd make participation in therapy-for your husband-a dealbreaker. Protect your son. BTW, there are plenty of men who abuse their wives but not their children-not directly at  least. Having to witness any type of DV, be it verbal, physical, emotional, is abuse though.

Think about calling a DV organization to help you explore what is happening.[/quote]

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