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[quote=Anonymous]This is OP to update as I'm quite upset. My dad has gone quiet for the last few months except the occasional "anyone know where I can live because I can't afford my rent" type texts. Which we have ignored. Then I find out I'm pregnant with what seems a viable pregnancy after a string of mc's. I texted a group text (as a courtesy including him) a picture of the scan and letting sisters, mom and dad know everything was good. Radio silence from him. This irritated me but I didn't expect much more than that anyway. Then all of a sudden last night he sends this dramatic, long text about how his job is killing him and if anything happens to him here's his medicine allergies, etc. And if we were to get a call from his number to answer it. That he had fucked up his life and made mistakes blah blah blah (trust me we've heard this from him a million times). WTF? What does he want from us? Money so he can quit his job so he doesn't die and we can continue our wonderful father daughter relationship? I am so angry with him, he is so selfish and narcissistic, and really only thinks about himself. Two of his daughters are pregnant and he has 2 grandkids and not once has he ever asked about anything or anyone. Literally, not once. He only texts to complain about his life. Then my sister responded to the text kind of pointing that out and then he starts threatening suicide. I am just so over him. I really do not care if he killed himself because it would make zero difference in my life but I do not need this stress right now! Should this pregnancy make it, i do not even want my child to know him. I think now is the time I just cut him out and off completely. He is just a sad old man living the life we all predicted many years ago. Ok vent and update over. [/quote]

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